One Year Blogging Anniversary – More or Less

       (Some musings on blogging – this is a long post but I’m tired of editing it, so I’m just going to throw it out there, sink or swim).

        WordPress recently congratulated me on my two-year blogging anniversary, but it’s only been a year – more or less.     While I created the blog in August of 2016 I only posted once that summer, a short entry about  one of my mother’s paintings and a photo of the sailboat which had inspired it, plus a song link to Sailing by Rod Stewart.   One of my initial reasons for blogging was to get some local PR for her folk-art, and one of my plans was to fit a song, photo, painting and/or book into each weekly theme.   The person who helped me create the account had gone back to school and no one I knew blogged, so I quickly abandoned it – it all seemed too complicated, (now it just seems routine).    In August of 2017 I edited that first post with a comment “I wonder how many abandoned blogs are out there floating in the WordPress sea” and mine would have remained one of them were it not for a summer student at the library who blogged herself on WordPress and who was an enormous help with the setup.   And so I launched my ship, on my way to a new adventure, tacking into the wind or whatever you do on a sailboat.   (I know nothing about sailing other than the sails are so pretty).  

sailboat canatara

I made a personal commitment to blog once a week and wrote out a list of  ideas in a pretty journal, with one page dedicated to each month and so had 50 or 60 topics lined up.…more or less.     


For the first three months I kept my blog private.   My writing skills were rusty and I wanted to achieve a certain level of comfort before taking it public.   As a high school student, I had been good in both English and chemistry but chemistry seemed more practical and so I trained for something medical.   (Back then you were either artsy or a science nerd, never both, techies didn’t even exist).   I had a wonderful career for 35 years and don’t regret my decision, there was always a part of me that wondered what if?   While I was and always had been an avid reader, my only writing for decades had consisted of medical shorthand, which may have been a forerunner for those texting abbreviations like OMG and LOL.   Only in this case SOB means shortness of breath, and F/U means follow up in 1 week, (not quite what you were expecting eh)?   Brevity was valued.   My grammar and punctuation skills had also deteriorated accordingly.   I am still unsure where to place commas and brackets but am too lazy to try and find my high school Mastering Effective English textbook in the basement (I had two copies at one point), and too cheap to sign up for Grammarly.  

Like many Canadians, I am a reserved person by nature, so it was a big step for me to take my blog public, which I did in October of last year but only because I needed help in the WordPress forums (I had the free plan then).  My very first follower had a blog about all things paranormal and she went back and read all my weekly postings which was very encouraging.    My second follower had a blog about Indian food.   She said she liked all my pretty pictures, but I didn’t have the heart to admit I couldn’t eat spicy food.  She unfollowed me shortly after I declined one of those chain letter type awards, (when you only have a few followers you can tell who unfollows you), but I honestly didn’t have any blogs I could pass it on to because for the first three months I didn’t even know that READER section tab was there – that’s how naïve I was.   (or maybe it wasn’t there because my blog was private?)       

My goal for the year was quite modest, to post once a week and to get 100 followers.    My intention was to write about interesting uplifting things and to share a little bit of loveliness in what is often a depressing world.    (In Real Life there are always plenty of things to be discouraged about – just turn on the evening news).  There would be no angst in my blog, but plenty of books.   

Have I achieved what I sent out to do?   More or less. 

I don’t quite have 100 followers….only 85 but I have until my Oct. public anniversary date.    I seem to have plateaued this summer, but I find WP quiet lately, views and likes down.   Is this just a normal summertime dip or a general trend?    

I have blogged once a week …..more or less….56 posts so far since Aug 8 of last year.  (I never quite got the other features on my main menu off the ground, Favorite Books, The Vintage Corner or product reviews under The Scoop).    November was a difficult month, I only got three up (I like to plan ahead for Christmas, then don’t go near the stores in December).  May and June were difficult too, but we had such a cold miserable spring that I was able to get 6 or 7 blogs ahead, mostly gardening stuff and just filled them in with photos and edited when the time came to post.   Once the hot humid part of the summer started, it was not a chore to stay inside and write.   For me writing the initial draft is always the hardest part.   I don’t mind editing, although I can be obsessive and waste too much time on finding just the right word.         

What surprised me most about blogging?

Meeting people from all over the world, and how nice and kind, and similar we all are.   Somehow, I had expected that only readers from your continent saw your blog, so the international aspect was one of the pleasant surprises about the WordPress world.   I have had readers from the UK, France, Italy, and recently Cambodia, and some from tiny little countries I have to look up to see where they are.      

How much time it takes to do just one blog per week.    I tend to be perfectionistic, (is that a word), and edit a lot, right up until before I post.   I use all my own photos and it takes time to take, edit and upload all the pictures, plus my photo files are such a disorganized mess I can waste hours looking for the one I want.   (Sometimes I think I might just like to have a photography blog).   Most of my posts are personal topics, not requiring a ton of research, but even at once a week, it was more of a time commitment than I had expected.     I don’t know how bloggers who post more often do it?    Maybe their words flow more easily…

How much I have enjoyed the whole creative process, especially the layout design, putting the pictures, music and books together for each topic.  (I think I might have enjoyed working for a magazine).    I had great fun doing the Jane Austen interview and the historical posts.   I love history and anything vintage so I found researching my Irish Roots and Uncle Charlie’s WWI post time-consuming but fascinating.  

What would I do differently?

Begin as you want to go on, as the saying goes.

I wish I had spent more time researching the title and theme.    I chose the  Sela theme initially (well my helper chose it for me), but I don’t like the thin font so I have to bold it, but if I edit the font then it changes all the previous posts.   I grew up on a farm so I knew I wanted the homeplace for my name but it was taken so I had to add web on the end which just sounds awkward, plus somewhat misleading as people might think my blog is about homesteading or farming, when really my aim was to find a simpler more peaceful existence.    Although many of my initial posts referenced growing up on a farm (see Out in The Country), my blog evolved in different directions.  I still want people to drop in and stay awhile though!   So think twice when you chose that title.        

I wish I had signed up for the paid plan initially, instead of the free one.   I switched in February and some of the layout of my earlier posts got messed up.    I upgraded to get rid of those annoying ads.   (I know that’s how you make money but if a blog has too many ads or pages in it, I don’t hit next, I hit exit – I don’t care how suspenseful the title).   

I wish I had kept my blog TOTALLY anonymous.   In the initial excitement of blogging, I shared it with a few people (less than ten), some close, some not so close who I felt might give me honest feedback.   With a little encouragement six signed up as email followers, but when my screen froze back in February and I lost my email list, none of them noticed or have inquired about it  since.   I told the only person who eventually asked that I had stopped blogging, it was too much work.     Lesson learned, no one cares about your blog as much as you do!  You may want to share to get feedback but be prepared for a lack of interest.  People are busy with their own lives. 

Also, try to develop a thick skin, especially important if you are sensitive soul.   Of those initial shares the reaction was muted and the constructive criticism basically non-existent.   I may cringe when I read my earlier posts, but were they so bad as to deserve total silence?    You can be prepared for anything but silence is especially unnerving.    What new bloggers need is support and encouragement not apathy.  (I’m a big fan of the if you can’t admire someone’s creation then at least applaud the effort school of thought).   There was the person who had suggested I blog in the first place, but then never read it.    The person I emailed it to and never heard from. When I inquired as to what she thought, she said she was still reading, and then I never heard anything further.    The person I mentioned it to over lunch who said that’s nice and changed the subject to something more interesting.   Or the person whose sole comment was that it had spelling mistakes (I use British English), but couldn’t name any.   (I am sure it did, and still does, and will in the future, typos creep in, and there are many many days I think I could benefit from a good editor).   Or the person who was very encouraging at the beginning but who stopped reading once she realized her comments were public…at least she had warned me she wasn’t a reader.   And the one who said with surprise, oh it’s a personal blog.   What were they expecting, a treatise on the serotonin theory of rat rewarding behavior in lab mice?  (Sorry, but I’ve left all that behind).  Some of them were puzzled as to why I would even want to blog in the first place.  Besides, isn’t everyone a writer these days with social media – what’s the big deal, it’s nothing special.   It’s hard not to take it personally when people you know don’t share your enthusiasm or even pretend to share it enough to read for ten minutes once a week.   (I can write this freely as I am quite confident none of them are reading).   So now I wish I had just kept it totally anonymous from the beginning.     Plus I think then you are freer to write what you want without worrying if someone will take offense to it, especially family members who might worry that they are in it.    My mother knows about the blog of course because of the artwork, (she calls it my blob), but then she is ninety and doesn’t have a computer.   (Some of her artwork is listed under The Artist on the main menu).       

A Timely Topic

What time of day/week to post?    I have not noticed any difference whatsoever in terms of response, but I tend to prefer posting in the morning as if I work on it too late at night I will sometimes edit in my sleep and wake up thinking I must change that word!   Lately I have been posting on Mon/Tues but I have posted other days too.  Although I know it is important to have a regularly scheduled day, I don’t seem to have one.   Sometimes two weeks would go by before I could get something up, but I mostly stuck to my four per month quota.    (This post is 3 weeks late as I couldn’t find the time to edit it). 

A Timely Subject 

Some topics (gardening, books) get more attention than other more obscure subjects – The Simply White Dinner, The Insta-Pot review etc.   My topics are all over the map because I post about what interests me, but it’s very easy to get discouraged when you spend hours on something with little feedback.    Books are always popular because all writers are readers.   My last post on Beach Books got the most views all summer.

Your Target Audience:

 If I had known how many excellent blogs there were out there in the WordPress sea I doubt I would ever have proceeded – sometimes ignorance is bliss.    Before I signed up with WordPress I had only ever looked at two blogs – Susan Branch and Victoria magazine.   In fact, readers who enjoy these blogs plus baby boomers might be my intended audience.   My blog is a lifestyle blog so it’s general to begin with, but if I label my blog for baby-boomers, am I then eliminating a potential portion of my audience, even though they might not get my music links?   You know when some people first follow your blog and you check theirs out they are not going to stick around and vice versa, (like me with the Indian food).   While you can’t really predict who might be interested in your blog, there must be some better way to reach your target audience than random tags and hit and miss following.  When I started a year ago there were 33 million followers on WP, now there are 45 million bloggers.  It’s a big sea out there, with a lot of boats going in different directions who might not have any interest in joining your regatta.   Would it have been better to have self-hosted and steered my own course instead of bobbing around in the water hoping someone will notice?    Does anyone have any experience with self-hosting they would care to share?    Should I hire a consultant to make my blog more seaworthy?  (or should I stop with the ship metaphors at risk of being made to walk the plank)?  

The Golden Rule

Thou shalt not compare…..followers….easy to say, hard to do, and don’t we all count our stats?      

The whole followers/readers/views/likes/comments situation remains a puzzle to me.   I don’t know how people get so many followers – when I click on their blogs and see they have 500, 1000, or 5000 followers – what did they do to get that many?   How many years have they been blogging?   I follow and read and like about 30 other blogs, although I don’t comment as often as I should.   Some of these are people I have followed right from the start, and they seem to have a steady uptick in their followers, but others seemed to have dropped off the radar completely.   Their posts never show up in my Reader, or they will for awhile and then they drop off.   Notices about some posts will show up in my email, but others do not.   If it is an algorithm like Facebook, where you only see the posts of people you like and comment on, if their posts don’t show up, how are you suppose to read them.         

I appreciate all my readers and am happy if a few comment that they loved my post or said that was a great read, but we always want more don’t we?  And now that I am aware of the like-pirates who scroll down and plunder your posts with false likes, I wonder if it’s comments I should be counting, but who has time to comment on everything they read?  (Conversely, when you want to comment but the comments are turned off, that can be annoying too as that is part of the fun).       Pirates

 Statistical analysis:  (or Followers do not equal Readers)

       Being an analytical kind of person, I tried to do the math.   If you have 5000 followers, it is physically impossible for all those people to have your blog show up in their reader, (and vice versa), unless they have signed up with a personal email, and even then, they may not click on it.   Statistically if someone has 5000 followers and they get 50 likes that is only batting one percent (like baseball).   If you have 100 followers and ten people like your blog that’s 10 percent, so you are actually ahead stats wise.   So having more followers, gets you more likes but certainly not proportionally.  It’s the law of diminishing returns.   And what if you get a lot of views but not many likes (maybe you kissed the blarney stone and your posts are too long and meandering like mine and people give up).  Maybe that is why WP recently deleted the views from the published post section?  Do you shorten your posts to the length of the average attention span – 500 words…..or write on? 

           Incidentally, one of the best bloggers I follow has very few followers and her blog isn’t about anything I really care about, but her writing style is so fine and entertaining that I enjoy reading it anyway.   Many of the bloggers I follow are small in number and sporadic in posting.  Two of the bloggers I really liked appear to have quit.    I saw a blog the other day about the adventures of a dog that had 1700 followers.    Who can figure it out?         

Flogging your blog on other social media sites: 

Yes you should do this, but I admit I have not.  If you didn’t grow up with social media and aren’t comfortable with self-promotion, all those sites  can seem overwhelming.    Recently I joined Pinterest in an attempt to increase my  readership.   I posted a photo of my purple salvia and a link to my gardening blog The Color Purple, and down below there were fifty purple photos much nicer than mine…..the Competition Purple.   Plus if you don’t spend a ton of time on those sites following others, then you don’t get followers.   It’s reminds me of the rats in those old biology experiments – you are rewarded with a like each time so you continue with the same pattern of behavior, accumulating followers instead of food pellets, but what if you want to eat at a restaurant outside of the rat cage?   The first person I followed on Pinterest (recipes) had 10 million followers which is why they showed up at the top of my feed.   The rat reward system obviously works but is it worth the time investment if you are just a small mouse?   I think Pinterest will have to wait until winter when I need a good recipe for Sticky Toffee Pudding.        

I find it is harder to get new followers now that the community pool has closed.   I will sometimes drop in on blog parties or tea parties and those can be fun.   I enjoyed the Quotes contest and that Sunshine Blogger Award brought me the most views – 52.   Most likes in a day was 18 for The Potager.    We would all like to have more followers, but really what does it matter in the end if you have 100, 1000 or 10,000?   It is discouraging to compare, as there is always someone with more.   (I am sorry if this is depressing anyone – there is a cheery song at the end).   Perhaps the most important thing to remember is you are writing primarily for yourself, if others enjoy it too, that’s a bonus.  Plus there is a certain level of satisfaction to be had in having an idea, getting it down on paper and editing it to exactly the way you want – a post can be a thing of beauty on it’s own even if no one reads it. 

Show Me The Money:

Stats are important for financial gain.   I have heard 35,000 is the magic number to make any serious money at a blog, but there is a vast gulf between even 1000 viewers and that number.   Is even a bit of advertising financially worthwhile?   I don’t know  – I don’t know anyone lucky enough to play in the big league.    Having a financially successful blog takes good writing, a major time investment, dedication, commitment, social media PR and sometimes a lucky break (and it helps if you have a dog as everyone likes dogs, except me, I’m more of a cat person).    Having your post re-blogged or promoted somewhere can give you a huge jump in followers.   But it’s all beyond my scope of practice.    I will never be a big league blogger and am not sure I would want to anyway – it’s too much of a commitment for a newly retired person with a long bucket list.   Not to be discouraging to anyone who aspires to that.     If you can get some financial compensation for all the time invested, so much the better.    We all like to write, but I am sure writing for profit would be so much more rewarding!                

 Future Goals: 

          The race may be off course, but I’m not going to abandon ship just because the skies are stormy and the water is rough at the moment, summer storm over lake

but I may cut back to once or twice a month, (I really disliked the schedule), or I may just tread water for awhile.   My mother is having an art exhibit the month of  September (38 new paintings framed and ready) and I will be busy with that, so I may re-post some of those initial blogs which never saw an audience last fall, if they prove not too cringe-worthy, with more likely a mixture of new and recycled.  

Sailboat AMC

Or I may change course and set sail in a different direction.    I have enjoyed the creative process too much to quit totally but I may try some other kind of writing….I think a murder mystery might be fun.   (I can picture it now….six hundred pages with the clues cleverly scattered amongst all those superfluous details, lengthy descriptions and annoying brackets).    So, if this blog has served no other purpose than to jump-start a dormant English major, then it may prove useful yet.     I’ll have to give it some thought….a year at the least.   (Give me a topic and I can write something on it but give me a plot-line and I may be stuck forever…see the sometimes ignorance is bliss quote).     The Woman in Cabin Ten, (a murder mystery about a passenger on a small luxury cruise ship who thinks she saw someone being thrown overboard), made the bestseller list and god knows how much money.    Time to get that notebook out…….ahoy maties!   Full steam ahead!   

PS.  If you hear nothing further, I have sailed off into the sunset or been swept into the Bermuda Triangle….(now there’s a mystery that was never solved….)    Thanks for reading…those who stuck it out.   (4000 words……more or less). 

Song Link:   Triangle – a sailing song by Gordon Lightfoot (Canada’s national folk-singer)    


Quote of the Day:  “So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.”  (The Great Gatsby – F. Scott Fitzgerald)

Discussion:   My apologies if I have offended any of my initial readers, on the remote chance they may be still reading.    My intention was to highlight one of the frustrations of blogging, lack of encouragement and support.    Any bloggers care to share your experiences with any personal good/bad feedback you may have received about your blog from family or friends?   Or is your blog anonymous?  Do you find it difficult to get followers?   Are you satisfied with the progress you have made with your blog so far or did you expect more?   




38 thoughts on “One Year Blogging Anniversary – More or Less

  1. the britchy one says:

    I haven’t really thought about blog progress. I’m happy in my own little world and if someone laughs at me it makes my day! I like commenting as you can see and following blogs I see listed on other people’s comments. It’s a great way to find new blogs and honestly – to be found. I just enjoy it for me. It’s my fun, my escape and funnily enough, the person who bagged me mercilessly to start a blog has never read it!

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  2. HistorianRuby says:

    Coincidentally, I was contemplating a similar anniversary post for October! My 2 year anniversary was in June but I had a long hiatus and only started properly again in October 2017!

    Everything has been much slower since the Community Pool has closed. However, hosting the blog party history trip, that I’d been thinking about for a while but wrote on a whim on Thursday, has proven beneficial for new followers (13 since I posted) and views (142 at time of writing). It has really boosted my viewing stats as they have been a bit flat and it seems that bloggers like posts about blogging and books (your summer reads post). (My post about second-hand book buys last month had a similar number of views to yours.) While having no idea about reader engagement as it was the first time I’d attempted to host a blog party, I was disappointed at first as it took nearly two hours before someone left a link (but gained 3 new follows!). However, I’ve really enjoyed the engagement with the participating bloggers, only 1 or 2 are new to me but they all interacted with each other and the feedback has been very positive.

    I find my views and followers rise with regular posts, 3-4 times a week, but to get that output I had to reduce the length of my posts to about half of my earlier posts. I’ve had a busy August and start to September (and I’ll be out of action for at least a week from tomorrow) so my overall views are down but I’ve had to accept that as life is busy at the moment. Also following active bloggers helps your stats to rise. I have only one original follower (I think) from before my break, most disappear into the blogging netherworld (as did I for a time), so I frequently have to follow a few new blogs to keep everything alive.

    I do enjoy reading your posts and I remember reading them from autumn last year. I hope you continue, even if you have to reduce your schedule, something that I have never yet managed to adhere to!

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  3. An Historian About Town says:

    Congratulations on your one year anniversary!!! I’ve noticed a huge drop in traffic in general, but particularly with comments, and I cannot for the life of me figure out why. It’s not just normal “summer drops”, and summer is rapidly drawing to a close- where is everyone?? I know for people who posted a lot in community pool, traffic has really slowed down 😦

    I was looking through my followers, and I would guess that a good chunk of my followers either no longer use WordPress/read any blogs, or don’t read mine anymore. I gained 1000ish followers from being featured on WordPress Discover, but my traffic didn’t increase in the long run. I think that people sign up for a WordPress account to make their own blog, start following people, abandon their own blog, and then stop reading anything else. (Could be way off base but that is my theory!)

    Interestingly, much of my traffic is coming from Pinterest (30-40%)- my work is paying off!!- but my traffic isn’t up, meaning that less of my regular readers are reading my blog. I’m really proud of what I’m doing right now, so it is a little upsetting, but what can you do? (I just wish I knew if it is something that they would like me to do differently, or something that isn’t related to me at all!)

    I would absolutely love to read a murder mystery if you wanted to write one 🙂 Blogging has to suit YOU, especially if it is a hobby- one should never force oneself to take up a hobby to suit other people!! I hope that with the fall and holiday seasons coming, you are able to take some time for you and relax in whatever way you want 🙂 I am looking forward to seeing what comes next!!

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    • HistorianRuby says:

      Re comments. (You may know this) Your Reader page now does not have the comment box. You have to go to your site and sign in if you want to leave a comment. I’ve ticked the box a couple of times saying remember me for next comment, but it hasn’t yet. I’ll try to remember to go to your last posting and try again.
      Actually, my Pinterest engagement is up since I started playing on it more, but that means Instagram has fallen away again. Pinterest now beats Twitter, who’d have thought it? I find it hard to meet the demands of several social media.

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  4. Dave says:

    Congratulations on your WP anniversary! As a fellow blogger, I find your reflection useful and encouraging. I wish more bloggers would take a moment as you have – the perspectives of others who are in the same boat (ha) are so important. I thought this paragraph of yours was particularly insightful: “Perhaps the most important thing to remember is you are writing primarily for yourself, if others enjoy it too, that’s a bonus. Plus there is a certain level of satisfaction to be had in having an idea, getting it down on paper and editing it to exactly the way you want – a post can be a thing of beauty on it’s own even if no one reads it.” I completely agree. If we are not first-and-foremost writing for the love of writing, aren’t we missing the boat (ha again).

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    • thehomeplaceweb says:

      HA! to the boat puns! Yes, I try and remind myself when I get discouraged over lack of followers that it’s the process that counts. I was wondering I know you post on Thursdays but how long have you been blogging? And do you find it difficult to meet that weekly commitment?


  5. Cloud and Sunshine says:

    Though it was long (I’d be honest) but I found it intriguing the way it is. Going through your post, even I have made up my mind to write something like this on my blogging anniversary in January next year which also happens to be my wedding anniversary. I don’t know if I would be able to do justice the way you did but I will definitely have my hand at it. Thanks for the inspiration. It was a great read.!

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  6. Chomeuse with a Chou says:

    Your interview with Jane Austen was sensational and I remember it well! I started a blog initially as a way to get through the night with a hungry baby but it is so hard to stay committed to it when I can see real life obligations slipping behind schedule. I have now switched to a paid account to try not to abandon it again as I love writing and reading about everyone else. I hope the murder mystery is progressing well!

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  7. lindasschaub says:

    This blog post showed up at the bottom of today’s Irish post Joan. It was very interesting. I went through a lot of the same feelings. When I began my blog, I only had my next-door neighbor Marge following. She was the one who suggested I begin a blog. About 18 months later I met fellow walker Ann Marie at Council Point Park. I was taking a picture of a Woolly Bully Caterpillar and explained how the theory of rings meant a bad Winter according to folklore and also “The Old Farmer’s Almanac” … so Ann Marie started following me. I told only a few of my high school friends … they’ve followed me since 2013 – each one subscribed by e-mail, each has commented once! I have had some comments from strangers. I also blog on “Patch” … rarely get comments. I have written three or four posts about my friend Carol in New York – she takes care of feral cats/kittens … I even sent her the two posts I did about her and the feral cats (she saved one who was near death) and I don’t remember the other post, and I wrote about her husband who lived out of state calling to say he was in the hospital with heart issues – she flew to North Carolina to be there for his surgery – nothing said. So now I don’t even send her the post if I mention her deer in the yard …my good friend Evelyn with all the e-mails has never subscribed. She is interested in photography so if I take a lot of pictures in one day I share them from the blog link (she also shares pictures with me) but I say “you don’t have to read the narrative” and she doesn’t. I have no words about all that either … we put a lot of effort in our writing and people who follow just for “likes” or “follow backs” are no genuinely interested in what you write. I followed everyone back in the beginning because I thought that was proper etiquette, then quickly realized it was just for “follows” or “likes”.

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    • thehomeplaceweb says:

      It’s interesting to hear that your friends don’t read either….now I don’t feel so alone! It’s hard not to take it personally when people you know can’t be bothered to read, but I try and excuse it with the fact that they are non-writers. Only writer’s know the blood sweat and tears it takes to get a piece right! But I know if a friend told me she had started a blog, even if reading wasn’t my thing, I would read it! My mother runs into the same thing with her art – some people who come into her house, and the canvases are propped up all over the place, so it’s not like you can miss them – they never say a single thing! They are just not art people. As for the likes – I had my first like pirate today – I had 54 likes today, which is my max, most from Serbia. When I went on this morning I had maybe 6 views and 2 likes, and half an hour later WP was congratulating me on a new record 45 likes – in half an hour? Yea right, someone just went down the list and liked every post. Maybe she read a couple, but it would be impossible to read 40 posts in half an hour. For my second anniversary, I am now at the stage, where I am just writing for practice and it keeps my mind sharp now that’s I’m retired. I’m no longer looking to increase my followers, although I did today, I picked up some genealogy followers. I have NO idea why that anniversary blog would show up under today’s genealogy post. It was only tagged and categorized as blogging and blogging anniversary, no tags in common? Sometimes I wonder about WordPress. I will sometimes get lots of views on old posts, but never any likes. Do they cut off the likes if the post is a certain age? I should inquire.

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      • lindasschaub says:

        I could not understand it either Joan – these are our friends. And people who signed up by subscription and never made a comment. Even if you sign up and are busy and don’t have time to read the entire post, an acknowledgment would not be so terrible. But, no sign of life – nothing. And yes, we are excited that we take the time to write it and no one says anything. I never shared it with anyone except my neighbor Marge and I blog on two newspapers and never get comments there either. I told my boss I had created a blog (in the beginning) – he said “do you get paid for it?” I very icily said “no I don’t get paid for it.” He probably doesn’t even remember I told him about it. Sometimes I mention if I go to a park far away and I take pictures – he never says “what do you do with the pictures?” So I quit mentioning it to him – I feel like it is a secret part of my life – having worked for him since the Fall of 2000 and known him since 1993, you would think he would be a little more interested. I did a post when I turned 60 and the three high school friends did comment on it which surprised me and that was the only time they commented. The photographer I follow (Jill Wellington) mentioned her birthday last year and it turns out we share the same birthday, so I sent her the post and she commented on it. But the others – nope.
        And I did that long post about the diner – this was interesting to me because one of the high school friends worked at that diner during high school (afternoons) … I never knew that until one time I mentioned it in an e-mail (her husband is the father-in-law of my former boss’ son).
        Anyway, she told me she worked there, yet I did that long post and she never mentioned it, so obviously just deletes the posts or doesn’t read them. And I sent the post to my former co-worker (the manager’s granddaughter) and she said “thanks – I’ll read it and get back with you” – never heard from her). It is annoying to me so for the longest time I just wrote for myself. I never tagged any of my posts until February of 2018 when my blog was five years old. I never had more than a handful of followers until November of 2017 then a few people discovered me. And I am like you and don’t like to see someone goes and likes a bunch of things at one time or likes a long post two seconds after you post it. I don’t think they would cut off the likes because I send old blog post links to you and the likes show up.

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      • thehomeplaceweb says:

        I didn’t tag for the first six months, but noticed after I started that I started to get a few more followers. I shared the blog early days with one of my close work friends, sent her a link on the insomnia post, as she was complaining of insomnia, and she never ever mentioned it….or anything at all about the blog. Then last fall she asked if I would mind reading a book manuscript she wrote 20 years ago once she gets it retyped!!!!! I said yes, of course to be polite, and as a good friend I would anyway, but still…..I honestly think she really doesn’t remember. I guess people are busy with their own lives…..

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      • lindasschaub says:

        That kind of thing irritates me to be honest and nervy as well and I thought it was more of an “American thing” … not all Americans are rude , not saying that, but they have the moniker of “the ugly American” when traveling, especially overseas. I had a friend who had suggested that I start a blog … Joe was a journalism major but he went to law school and got his law degree and began working at the National Labor Relations Board in Detroit. He met my boss there. Robb worked at the NLRB 7 years, then quit to travel around the world for two years (backpacking/hiking) and then went into private practice. My boss taught a class called “Private Sector Labor Law” at University of Detroit Mercy Law School and Joe taught with him. Robb did one night as to private sector and Joe did the second night (in the week) as the perspective of the Government (NLRB). So Joe was at our office and on the phone alot as we coordinated for class.
        He was always sorry he didn’t pursue a job in journalism but he wrote and still writes a small newsletter on trout fishing called “Trout Times” … he would forward it to me each issue and I have no interest in trout fishing, but I read it and commented on his stories.
        He said “you should do something in writing” so after six months of the blog, I sent it to him. He said “sometime I’ll look at this okay?” He was already retired – I was annoyed but never said anything. Then about six months later he e-mailed me and asked if I would proofread/edit his trout fishing book – I could have my name as “Editor” on the booki. I said I really did not have time to do it – (honestly, the articles were bad enough and I was offended he should ask me to do that which would be a lot of work) … you are clearly a nicer person that I was.
        I never hear from him now, though we are Facebook Friends, but I turn everyone’s posts off so I don’t have to read all the stuff in my news feed, just the news, weather, and nature/bird posts about local places where I might go for walking/pics.

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      • thehomeplaceweb says:

        LOL! I’m howling with laughter here! Trout fishing! OMG. That is nervy. Who would want to edit a book on trout fishing! He must have thought you would be ‘honoured’ to be have the title of Editor!! And ‘sometime I’ll look at this ok” – that is priceless too, esp when you had read and commented on hi, plus he’s retired. I guess it takes a special kind of ego to do that. I only said I would read my friends book, as I know it will never get retyped…..she is 40, works full time and has a two year old, so as I suspect it will never get rewritten, so I could afford to be generous. I guess, we have both learned just not to share our blogs – it’s just not worth the grief!

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      • lindasschaub says:

        Yes, I think he thought giving me a “title” would be the deal maker. And he started out by saying “I wish I could pay you to do this editing and proofreading job, but I can’t, but I would be happy to put your name/byline as Editor. Yes nervy, and this was a friend! Well, hopefully she forgets about it and with a full-time job, and a two year old, she won’t be handing it over anytime soon. No, I won’t share with any more frienfds – they are a disappointment.

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      • thehomeplaceweb says:

        PS. I don’t think it can be an American thing, because all six of my friends who had originally signed up with emails, didn’t even mention it when I switched my domain over, and they are all Canadian. Maybe I expect too much of my friends, but it is rather disappointing. But god, I hope I’m never in a position where I have to read about trout fishing! One of the bloggers I used to read occasionally posted asking for people to read her book manuscript and I was tempted to help her out, but then chickened out. I don’t believe she got any offers….it’s just too big a time commitment for other writers. So, a few weeks later she posted two versions of the first chapter, and asked for feedback on which was better. I could hardly read past the first few paragraphs, it’s not that the writing was so bad, it wasn’t, it was that it was so crude and full of swear words that I was actually offended. I really don’t like to read that kind of stuff and I wanted to say, hey have you thought about the language. Maybe other people don’t like to read that either. She had written 5 books, all unpublished. I ended up unfollowing her, so don’t think I’m all Miss Nicey-Nicey….it was just too much.

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      • lindasschaub says:

        I wouldn’t like that either. I’m not into that type of writing. There is a fellow blogger who followed me and I followed back – he comments from time to time, and his blog is about 80% crude limericks … I mean pretty crude and offensive. He does Haiku in the same manner … so I don’t even acknowledge them – he posts all day long (writes a bunch of posts and then launches them for different times) … but he does funny posts about his diet … now that is funny. He lost 50 pounds last year on the Take 30 diet which is a lot of veggies and special prep meals. So he was doing the shopping, cooking for him/wife and two boys. He was losing weight, then got a new job (he’s a computer programmer), got stressed out and goes down in the kitchen at night in the middle of the night and raids the fridge. Says he can’t help it. Now those posts are funny and I’ll like and comment and he does once a month a compilation of pics taken on his phone and I’ll comment on them, but the others, I won’t touch with a 10-foot pole.

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